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Anchored in Change: How October and Homeschool Planet Kept Us on Track

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October has been filled with surprises, independence, and accountability! This month brought several major transitions some that I hinted at last month but didn’t fully take effect until now.

We officially dropped our previous “honors” biology class, which turned out to be a standard biology course marketed as something seriously less than. We’ve since moved into a true honors-level program Savvas Miller & Levine 2019 Biology and it has been phenomenal. The rigor, labs, research opportunities, and interactive learning tools have taken science to the next level. My son is now engaging with real labs, quizzes, tests, research projects, and practicums and yes, no more skipping textbook chapters and sections like in his old “honors” biology online class!

We don’t enroll in classes just to “check boxes.” For us, quality always outweighs quantity, especially on a college-bound path. My son has made it very clear that university is his goal, so we’re aligning his homeschool accordingly.

Math Milestones

We wrapped up Denison Algebra 1 (huge win!) and have now transitioned into Denison Geometry. To keep Algebra skills sharp, we’re continuing to use Mr. D Math. My son has already decided he wants to start Algebra 2 next semester alongside Geometry, so I’m pacing us carefully to keep balance and mastery in check.

Literature and English

Earlier this year, I mentioned we were shifting directions in literature and what a phenomenal change that’s been! In October, my son officially joined Nia Natal Academy, and it’s been a perfect fit. He’s thriving academically and socially, connecting deeply with his peers and teachers.

In English, they’re diving into research essays and literary analysis while exploring powerful works like The Hate U Give. The classroom discussions are rich with connections to current events, civics, and Black history and the students aren’t holding back! The critical thinking and real-world context in this class have been inspiring to witness. The class he is in is high school level and he is doing really well and keeping up.

We are still using Michael Clay Thompson MCT Level 5 alongside Savvas 2025 MyProspective grade 8, both these are rigorous English curriculum that are above grade level.

His African Studies class has also been incredible. The teacher brings such depth and insight, challenging the students to think globally and act with purpose. Recently, the class began a world-building project where students created their own societies. My son campaigned for his role as Minister of Defense, which required a written platform, government assessment, and even a campaign video. This kind of project-based learning has had an amazing impact on him.

Leadership, Community, and Growth

Mid-October brought another exciting opportunity: an invitation to a public speaking workshop with Veritas a prestigious student society that meets weekly to study and refine leadership skills. He came out of that workshop absolutely energized and immediately decided to apply for membership. We’ve been gathering transcripts, essays, and recommendation letters since, and I’m so proud of how supportive his teachers and friends have been through this process.

Family Time

We have been spending more time together as family, going to the movies, field trips, game and movie nights. We are also cooking as a family two times a week. My husband has embarked on a new health journey and we have joined him. We all eating more healthy and enjoying new foods. Dad has stepped his game up and is attending homeschool co-ops with us and he also making time out of his busy schedule and spending at least one day a week being more hands on in our homeschool classroom.

Our Secret Weapon: Homeschool Planet in Action

If there’s one tool that has truly held us together through all these changes, it’s Homeschool Planet. Having this platform in our homeschool arsenal has been an absolute game changer. With its constant updates and improvements, it’s become one of the most reliable tools in our homeschool toolbox especially when life gets unpredictable.

The Homeschool Planet app has elevated the experience even more. From managing our schedule, lessons, important dates, and even forgotten Zoom log-ins while at co-op, it keeps us on track no matter where we are.

Last month, when I fell sick and ended up in the hospital, I realized just how powerful this system really is. Because I had planned ahead and uploaded everything into Homeschool Planet, my son was able to follow along independently. He tracked assignments, managed deadlines, and even helped me keep this very update on schedule. It was one of those “in the clutch” moments that reminded me why organization tools like this are worth their weight in gold. Homeschool Planet truly keeps our homeschool orbit steady even when life throws us a curveball.

From My Son’s Perspective

“Yup, I finished Denison Algebra 1! I set a goal to complete it before my 13th birthday and I did it! At the time I’m writing this, I’m still waiting on that birthday to roll around, but I’m really proud of myself.

I also got a Gabb Wireless Phone after my Gabb Watch retired after four years of loyal service. My parents were hesitant, but since Gabb is designed for safe communication, we agreed it was the right next step especially now that I’m doing more independent activities and drop-offs. I am using it smartly and its been nice to connect with friends in a different way. I am also not distracted by social media and internet. The one thing I really love is GABB MUSIC!!!!!! Its the best all my favorite artist no commercials and clean music and lots of genre to pick from.

I love my new biology textbook and new classes with a diverse group of peers. It feels great to be in spaces where I can be my full Afro-Latino self curious, open, and unguarded. The books we’re reading and the conversations we’re having really matter. Homeschool finally feels like homeschool again a place where I can grow, think, and be me.

One of my favorite tools this year is Homeschool Planet. I’m using it for everything assignments, chores, field trips, reminders you name it. The Homeschool Planet app on my phone is especially helpful when my mom’s not around to unlock my MacBook (thanks to those parental controls!). It helps me stay organized, check my schedule on the go, and even coordinate with friends. Total game changer for middle and high schoolers.

This month, I hung out with friends at the Fall Festival, found Veritas and applied, participated in Junior Achievement Finance Park, did some volunteering, and joined a new leadership group. October has been busy but the good kind of busy. I’m really looking forward to November. Oh, and I almost forgot my African Studies class is EXCELLENT!”

A Scary but Valuable Lesson

The end of October brought an unexpected challenge. My mom had to be hospitalized, which was really scary for me. Thankfully, she’s now home and doing much better, but it was a wake-up call for all of us.

Seeing my mom in the hospital was hard it made me realize how much she does every single day to keep things running in our home. When she came home, she couldn’t jump back into her full routine, and my dad and I had to step up. After the first day, I really saw where I had been slacking and how often she quietly picks up the pieces. I’m really sorry for that, and I’m going to do better.

She tried to bounce back quickly but eventually realized she needed to ask for help—and we were happy to be there for her. To all the kids reading this: you only get one mom cherish her and HELP HER!

This experience taught us all about balance, gratitude, and teamwork. Sometimes life slows you down so you can see what really matters.

Closing Reflections

October reminded us that growth often comes with change and sometimes with challenge. This month tested our balance, strengthened our faith, and deepened our gratitude. From rigorous new classes to unexpected life lessons, we’ve experienced so much growth as a family.

And through it all, Homeschool Planet has been the steady hand keeping our homeschool world spinning.

I know this homeschool thing can be tricky we all want what’s best for our kids. But here’s the truth: just because a course, academy, or program is marketed as “the best of the best” doesn’t mean it’s the right fit. Sometimes you’re just paying for the name that says XYZ. Colleges don’t care about fancy labels; they care about academics, character, and depth.

They want to know can this student think critically? Are they a world changer? What will having this student bring to our campus community? Yes, grades and test scores matter, but so do curiosity, compassion, and the ability to hold meaningful conversations about the world around them. They don’t want robots they want thinkers and students who will go beyond the limit of the textbook.

Did they enjoy their learning journey? Can they discuss complex ideas about society and global events? Outside of sports, what else do they bring to the table? What makes them happy? What motivates them?

These are the questions that shape the kind of education I’m building for my son. I’m not chasing big names or shiny marketing I’m seeking substance. Because in our homeschool, it’s not about checking boxes; it’s about creating a thinker, dreamer, and lifelong learner who understand that his education and has purpose.

Here’s to a purposeful, healthy, and inspiring November! Click the Homeschool Planet banner below to grab your free trial.

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Homeschooling Through the Hormone Hurricane: Middle Schoolers, Mood Swings, and the Magic of “We Don’t Care”

Let’s Be Real: Middle School Is Already a Wild Ride

Homeschooling middle school is not for the faint of heart. Between growth spurts, emotional whiplash, and the “new” version of your kid who woke up this morning suddenly too cool for phonics, it’s a whole job. Now imagine doing all that while you’re riding the hot, unpredictable wave of perimenopause. Y’all. I’m not saying we deserve medals, but give us a trophy shelf at least.

Wait…Is It Me or My Hormones?

If you’ve been homeschooling for a while, you probably know how to spot the signs of burnout: constant fatigue, lack of motivation, crying over your printer jamming (again). But what if those same symptoms aren’t just burnout? What if they’re hormones knocking at the door like, “Surprise! It’s me—Perimenopause.”

Here are a few signs you might be navigating that stage while also being the headmistress of your homeschool:

  • Sleepless nights…even though you’re exhausted.
  • Mood swings that feel like a bad tween novel.
  • Crying at the drop of a pencil (or because you actually dropped a pencil).
  • Forgetting where you put your glasses (while they’re on your head), sipping cold coffee at 2pm, and wondering why you walked into the pantry.

Perimenopause + Middle School = Emotional Gymnastics

Let me paint you a picture: Your middle schooler is having thoughts. Big ones. About the world. About themselves. About why math is pointless and how they should never have to write another paragraph again. Meanwhile, you’re sweating through your third shirt and questioning why you picked any of this year’s curriculum.

At least once a week, I look at our lesson plans and want to toss them in the trash like a salad I knew we weren’t gonna eat.

Cue the “We Don’t Care” Movement

You know what saved me? An Instagram mama @justbeingmelani who boldly started the “We Don’t Care” movement. If you don’t know who she is RUN to her IG!!! The idea is simple and liberating: we’re doing our best and that’s enough. The house isn’t perfect, the lesson didn’t go as planned, the tears fell (mine and his)…and you know what? We don’t care.

Say it loud for the sweaty moms in the back:
We. Don’t. Care.

It’s permission to be human. To stop trying to be the Pinterest-perfect homeschooler when you’re just trying to survive another round of hormone-fueled highs and lows while your kid discovers sarcasm as a second language

How to Manage Perimenopause While Homeschooling (Without Losing Your Mind)

Here’s the good news you’re not alone, and you can manage this. Here’s how:

1. Check Your Hormones, Sis.. Before you switch curriculums again or rework your entire homeschool plan for the millionth time, check in with your doctor. A blood panel might tell you that what you thought was just burnout is actually a hormonal shift.

2. Create Buffer Days… Build “light days” into your homeschool week less academic pressure, more connection. This isn’t slacking off. It’s smart homeschooling that respects the energy of both teacher and student.

3. Find Your Homeschool People…Surround yourself with mamas who keep it real. You need at least one friend who’ll laugh with you when you’re crying over missing highlighters and who’ll text back “you’re not crazy, this is just hormones and middle school.” or when you having a moment they recognize the moment and listen don’t judge. For all my natural mamas’s I am 100% on board for the natural treatment methods. Just need to get those horomones checked.

4. Eat. Sleep. Move. Repeat.… Basic, I know. But blood sugar crashes, sleep deprivation, and zero movement make hormonal symptoms worse. Drink water like it’s your job. Stretch. Step outside. Take a walk without the kids. Eat the dang salad (unless you’re still mad about that one you threw away).

5. Talk to Your Kids (Yes, Even Your Tween) ….Explain age appropriately what you’re going through. It models self-awareness and gives them permission to speak up about their changing emotions too. Who knew homeschool could be group therapy?

6. Learn Your Triggers…I have been working on how I respond to people. Keeping my cool and not stepping all the way out character. So far I have been doing really well staying calm. Because baby I be ready to let it rip when I am having a moment.

When You See a Fellow Mama Spiraling…

Say something. Gently. With love. Send a text like,
“Hey, are you okay? Or are you on your third coffee and crying over cursive like I was last week?”

Drop off a smoothie. Send a meme. Better yet, offer to co-op one afternoon and give her a break. Because sometimes we need someone else to recognize we’re on the hormone rollercoaster before we do.

Middle School Homeschoolers Don’t Help…But They’re Not the Enemy

Let’s not forget these little hormonal humans we’re raising are going through it too. One minute they’re laughing at fart jokes, the next they’re contemplating the meaning of life at 9:15 AM on a Tuesday while refusing to read the next chapter of their novel study.

They’re pulling away and needing us all at once. They’re learning to think critically, argue everything, and feel deeply about things like snack options. It’s a mess. But it’s also kind of beautiful, if we pause to see it.

Final Thoughts: We’re in This Together

Homeschooling through perimenopause isn’t a joke but laughing about it might save your sanity.

So the next time you’re mid-meltdown with a crying tween, a cold coffee in one hand and a broken dry-erase marker in the other, just remember:

You’re not crazy. You’re perimenopausal.

You’re not failing. You’re homeschooling.

And most of all…

We. Don’t. Care.

We care deeply about our kids. But we don’t care to be perfect. That’s not the assignment.

Education, Family, Homeschool, Homeschool Family, Middle School, Mom Life

Hybrid Middle School Homeschooling

Homeschooling can be a rewarding and challenging experience, especially when you find yourself guiding a child through two different grade levels simultaneously. As a parent taking on the role of both teacher and mentor, the journey can be filled with unique opportunities for growth and learning. I’ll share my experiences homeschooling my middle school son through a hybrid 6th and 7th grade, offering insights, strategies, and the lessons learned along the way.

Switching Things Up

What I noticed when we started 5th grade was my son like many other homeschoolers we school year round, but then I noticed that he was in between grade levels and he was frustrated and complaining more. Our biggest fights where why he had to keep doing stuff he already knows. I agreed with him, it made no sense to have him do a complete curriculum for one grade level when he was really teetering really close to the next grade level if not higher. So I tried something new for 5th grade we would do a hybrid 5th and 6th hybrid school year and see how things would go.

The 2022-2023 homeschool year was a huge success, he was able to complete all of his remaining 5th grade subjects by December and January he went full throttle into 6th grade.  As I write this its December again and we are already forty percent into his 7th grade curriculum. What I can honest tell you is that middle school is tough and it comes with its challenges.

Different Look at Middle School

I consider middle school the check – up years. Middle School is pretty much in my opinion the time where you cement those foundations while exposing your student to more difficult material. Its also a time for your student to explore their interest more and developing more independence. My son has always been in between grade levels his entire homeschool journey.  There is no way I can give him middle school science for eighth grade he is ready for biology and the same with math he will be ready for Algebra in the fall of 2024 and English is also ahead. Now his writing skills are on grade level and we will keep at his pace because this year is the first year he has had formal instruction and is finding his rhythm.  Before heading down this journey I recommend some points to observe and consider.

Helpful Insights

  1. Understanding the Unique Needs of Middle Schoolers:
    • Explore the developmental milestones of students in both grades.
    • Recognize the individual learning style and preferences of your child.
    • Tailor your approach to meet the academic and emotional needs of each grade
  2. Creating a Flexible Schedule:
    • Establish a daily routine that accommodates both grades.
    • Allocate specific time blocks for core subjects and extracurricular activities.
    • Remain flexible to adapt the schedule based on your child’s progress and interests.
  3. Curriculum Choices:
    • Selecting age-appropriate materials for both grade levels.
    • Integrating interdisciplinary activities to foster a holistic approach to learning.
    • Utilizing online resources, educational apps, and interactive materials.
  4. Individualized Learning Plans:
    • Assessing your child’s strengths and weaknesses in each subject.
    • Tailoring lesson plans to address individual learning needs.
    • Encouraging self-directed learning and independent study.
  5. Collaborative Learning:
    • Exploring group activities and projects that involve both grade levels.
    • Encouraging peer teaching and collaboration between siblings.
    • Organizing joint field trips or educational outings.
  6. Managing Challenges:
    • Addressing potential obstacles, such as time constraints and balancing responsibilities.
    • Seeking support from homeschooling communities, online forums, or local groups.
    • Embracing flexibility and adapting to unforeseen challenges.
  7. Assessing Progress:
    • Establishing a system for tracking academic achievements and milestones.
    • Conducting regular assessments to gauge understanding and retention.
    • Celebrating successes and addressing areas for improvement.

Homeschooling a child through middle simultaneously doing two grade levels may present its share of challenges, but it also offers a unique opportunity for deepening your connection with your child and fostering a love for learning. By embracing flexibility, tailoring your approach to individual needs, and staying connected with the homeschooling community, you can create a fulfilling and enriching educational experience for your middle schooler.

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Homeschool Rewind!

It’s been a while since I have just written a blog piece that wasn’t a review in a long time, but 2022 means new things for our homeschool journey. For the last 4 years, we have been eclectic homeschoolers. I bought the curriculums and wrote out elaborate homeschool lessons. Then in October I started to feel burnt out and observed my son was just not his usual cheerful self and we butting heads a lot when it came to getting lessons completed. Seeing my now unhappy 4th grader I started to examine what was going wrong without homeschool.

Unkownglingy after careful observation our homeschool was starting to turn into the one thing I hated and promised myself I wouldn’t do, we were doing “school at home”!!! How did we get here? We weren’t playing games anymore… hands-on learning opportunities were still present but opportunities were few. Then it was the curriculum I had chosen curriculum that wasn’t interesting and just busywork. What had I done to our homeschool? How could I get things back to our happy place?

The first thing I did was sit down with my son and talk with him. I was shocked at how unhappy he was with our current homeschool situation, I promised him that we would get things back on track. Luckily I kept all of my previous planners and I opened them up and started to examine our previous years. After looking over the planners, I ordered a new planner because I wanted a fresh start. I needed to start fresh and our current planner for the school year was a constant reminder to me of what I had done to our homeschool. I looked over our curriculum and took the advice of a good friend on Youtube and made four piles:

  • Summer Review!
  • Stretch for 5th and 6th grade!
  • Donate/Sell!
  • You were nuts buying this!

After doing a curriculum check I had to do a mental check, we desperately needed to include mindfulness back into our homeschool day. I personally was suffering from weekly headaches and anxiety. My son was also starting to show signs of anxiety because we were just not starting our day peacefully but rushing. So I purchased us some new meditation cards, My 52 List Project, and 52 List Calm. I also picked up a few books for executive functioning and a workbook for gifted kiddos.

I also slowed our pace down for doing actual homeschool lessons. We now operate on 3-4 lessons independently and then the ones that require more 1:1 we do in the afternoon. I am making it a point to meal plan again and prepare 3 meals a week that can stretch for 2 days and the 1 day is a fun meal! I pulled out our Kid Stir, Raddish Kids kits and dedicated one afternoon a week lunch to us cooking together. While revamping our homeschool I noticed we had a significant amount of games that still had their wrapper on them. I pulled all those new games out and put them in the forefront.

I looked over our curriculum and noticed we were doing a lot of repetitiveness in lessons. Now I am well aware that there is going to be review in many curricula, but what I saw was we were truly repeating stuff my son had fully mastered. So I am taking a hard look and decided that I would make some big changes for 2022-2023, we would move towards the 5th/6th-grade curriculum. After all, his math was already 5/6th and he is working well above 4th/5th-grade in language arts, geography, history, and science. So why am I boring him to pieces with repetitive lessons he has mastered. I will continue to analyze his lessons and add support where needed. It was time for a major change and to offer him lessons that work for him and that he loves.

I think what help me validate my decision was watching my good friend Erica over at the Melanated and Well Educated 2022-2023 curriculum choices video. My son is a huge Mrs. Erica fan he studied her video and made his own list of things he liked from the video. He also let me know he wants me to get books about anatomy and physiology and cardiac science because he wants to learn all he can about the heart. With the sincerity and excitement in his voice, I knew he was ready to shift his learning. Little J is looking to expand his knowledge beyond the standard curriculums I was considering. He wanted to see even more of his ancestry in his lessons, my child is wanting to be fulfilled and I needed to pour into his cup.

So many changes have taken place these last few weeks that I know will make our homeschool more of what we both want. Be on the lookout for our 2022-2023 Curriculum Choices and Summer Review Choices!

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Plan Prep and Pray: Busy Bee Student Planner Review !

Complimentary product received through the Melanated Gold Review Squad, in exchange for my honest review.

This year we have been trying out a few new student planners trying to find the one that works best for us. One the planners we had the privilege of trying out is the Plan Prep and Pray : Busy Bee Student Planner.

I am a huge fan of Wendy from the Plan Prep and Pray Youtube channel and her Instagram. I love all over her organization tips, meal planning and creativity. I was super humble when she let the Melanated Gold Review Squad review her latest planner the Busy Bee Student Planner .

The Busy Bee Student Planner is a 12 month planner, The planner comes to you in a digital download, that you can print or upload to a tablet. Each sheet is 8.5 x11 students are given the option to select monthly, weekly, or daily views. I really liked the cover of the planner, but what stands to me is the affirmation at the bottom “Bee Yourself; Everyone is Taken” students will find affirmations throughout the planner along with some Bible scriptures. I decided to print the monthly sheet and the daily sheets for my 4th grader. If you have a student that gets overwhelmed seeing so much to do I would recommend printing the daily sheets double sided. I like the note pages a lot I used them for his daily pages because they have sections for:

  • Prayers & Praises
  • Homeschool Checklist ( I used for that days lessons to complete)
  • Daily To Do List
  • Daily Goal
  • Reminders
  • Parents Love Note

One of the things I would love to see added is area for writing spelling/vocabulary words. There are mindfulness sheets for drawing, writing, and a beautiful butterfly to color I added this page at the end of each week as a reflection page for him . The planner also features a

  • Goal Setting Sheets
  • Password Tracker
  • Reading Goals
  • Goal Trackers
  • Field Trips
  • Wish List
  • Mini Games

There are alternative monthly and daily views. The alternative daily view has view divined into times from 7a.m. to 11:30 p.m. I used the alternative daily view as a suggested schedule for us.

The Busy Bee Student Planner has 1 Bible scripture in it, but the notepad sheets do have pray and praise section. If you aren’t of the Christian faith these can be easily covered with washi tape or stickers. The planner can be used by both parent and student, I recommend using the Busy Bee Student Planner with students 4th grade and up.

How I Used the Planner

I printed out 5 sheets of the note pages, as I planned for the upcoming weeks lessons I would write out his lessons for the week on the first 3 pages. I only did this for 3 because sometimes our lessons change slightly mid-week. I arch punch his sheets and put them in his arc binder. I always leave room for him to make his own notes to the sheet. Sometimes he will do some unschool learning on his own and he will write down what he did. He looks forward to the parent notes and praises each day. I have noticed that I dont have to remind him about some of his chores, because I will write one that needs to be done on his sheet.

Busy Bee Student Planner is a student friendly planner with the cute bees buzzing around the planner, affirmations and extra activities students will find this planner easy to manage. I highly recommend this planner to anyone who is looking for a simple, customizable, and reasonable priced planner. Be sure to check out the other squad’s reviews by clicking the banner below.

Until the Next

Mom

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MathandAlgebra.com Review!

The end of last school year it was like a light bulb went of in my son and he now loves everything math related. He went from a struggling math student to a math wiz over night. Now this mom is not a math lover and so I have to always keep my own skills up t pair when teaching math to my student. It was a great relief to this mom to this mom when the Crew was offered a one-year family subscription to MathandAlgebra.com.

MathandAlgebra.com is an online math program that provides detailed short instructional video lessons, quizzes and worksheets. MathandAlgebra.com also has a detailed parent dashboard for parents to track their students progress and for record keeping. Students can learn at their own pace and have the opportunity to earn badges to keep them motivated to continue to progress. Students can work on

  • Basic Math
  • Advanced Math
  • Pre-Algebra
  • Algebra

My son worked on Basic Math along side working in his own curriculum. What I really like about this program is that it gives my son an opportunity to learn math from someone else besides myself. MathandAlgebra.com video tutorials are perfect for him to see skills done in real time and the instructor is friendly and encouraging. MathandAlgebra.com also gives this mom a break when I need from time to time. The Basic Math has 10 topic with 6 to 12 lesson per topic.

Topics for basic math include Whole Numbers, Fractions, Decimals, Ratios, Geometry and so much more. MathandAlgebra.com is a complete math curriculum in my opinion for students in grades 3rd-12th grade. The one-year family subscription to MathandAlgebra.com comes with 3 users and I politely slid myself into one the slots so I can also refresh my own math skills. MathandAlgebra.com is a great homeschool planning tool for those doing 100% homeschooling and it is also a great supplement if your student is doing virtual school and you feel they need a little more support.

My son is still working in the whole numbers section working on multiplication and long division. I very sure in the next few weeks we will work on the geometry section as well. This is going to be a great supplement for his math because he has already burned though 90% of his math curriculum and I was going to be needing something to hold him over and keep his skills sharp.

MathandAlgebra.com is a wonderful online math program . At the time of this review the yearly plan is $99 for 3 students, monthly plan for $15 for 3 students. Be sure to check out the others crew reviews on MathandAlgebra.com by clicking the banner below.

Until the Next,

Mom and J

Homeschool, Mom Life, Parenting

Homeschool Update Reality Check!

Every year social media homeschoolers across all platforms upload their new curriculum vlogs, blogs and pictures. Some videos will blow you away because it’s sooo much stuff. These moms have taken their time researched and planned but the reality is these are their choices not their kiddos because I am almost 90% sure that at some point in the year the kids will change it up. I mean let’s face it I uploaded my video also but quickly soon after that video went up I started removing over 50% of the choices out of our routine.

In October I took a long hard look at all my previous years of homeschooling and what we were currently doing. I asked myself one quick question…ARE YOU NUTS? There is no way in the entire planet you are going to use majority of this stuff. I instantly stopped purchasing stuff and re-evaluated exactly what my kiddo was really using and the rest of this junk had to GO!!

So here is my update we don’t use Horizon Math Grade 2 anymore. I love Horizon math and it did give my son a solid foundation, he just fell out of love with it. I made me peace with his decisions and moved on. I have said in many of my vlogs and blogs I DON’T CURRICULUM HOP! Horizons has been faithful to us since kindergarten, but I quickly noticed his frustration in September and put it on the shelf. Abeka math has always been my next go to for math and I purchased Arithmetic 2 in July. He is thriving in Abeka Arithmetic 2 and Beast Academy 2 series (part of co-op) . He is happy and so is mommy problem solved.

We also are no longer using The Good and the Beautiful level 2. We have been using TGAB since book K, but I quickly noticed that level 2 was almost a complete duplicate of level 1 with some additional skills added. I didn’t need a repeat of the previous year because my kid has a very good memory and he wasn’t having it. He is really loving using Grammar Galaxy Volume 2 Protostar with his co-op and Evan Moor Language Fundamentals Grade 3 so we said goodbye to TGAB.

History we have been using Curiosity Chronicles series and following his lead. For African studies we are currently studying the Negro League Baseball teams. Science is interest led, he finished his 2nd grade science curriculum over the summer and I wasn’t about to throw another penny at a science curriculum until July 2020 and even then its not looking good. We have also rekindled our love for Sassafras Science series and been zip lining our way through science and interest led studies.

We have been having fun going to co-op 2 days a week and just letting his homeschool take us where he wants it. I teach those 2 days a week at his co-op and I have really been enjoying the kiddos and having some adult interaction this year. I am not in a rush to finish out this school year because we homeschool year round. We spend our days talking, gameschooling, researching, exploring and working as a team. We still have a daily routine and a work box system. My planner is still planned to the MAX each week but my new highlighting system is working out great.

I am not spending a bunch of money on unnecessary items any more. I have purged my home of all items that are for 1st grade and below. I no longer hold on to stuff to make my shelves look full or pretty. I heavily research homeschool items that will serve a purpose for the long term. I also no longer purchase tons of books. Yup I said it I am not hoarding books especially books that are about the same subject. I only buy books that have a long term purpose or books he really loves. We use the library for our literary needs and it is working out perfectly. My son loves our unit studies and hands on activities, but now I am using better common sense. Now when planning these things out I think about the long term use of these items so I am not hoarding.

If you follow me on Little Learner and Mom Instagram page and here on the blog I do review products. Let me tell you right now every product I have reviewed on my blog or shown on my social media platforms have been put into rotation and those we don’t use I use with my co-op kiddos. I am so over seeing all these hoarding videos, let just call it what it is HOARDING and the “Look at me syndrome” or “Let me see how many followers I can get”. We homeschool because this is what is right for my family and if some of what I am doing can help a mom in need I hope we are a blessing to her.

We are completely authentic in our homeschool journey. My son has days when he isn’t in the best of moods and on those days I am like forget it lets play Switch. My homeschool room sometimes looks like a train hit. I am consider myself an organized person and as I write this piece my desk looks like a tornado also hit it. I do like things in order but I am not about to tell you that everything is perfect over here. I have days when I want to pull my hair out. My son has areas he struggles in and I am not afraid to say it. We are pretty much straightforward homeschoolers with a sprinkle of unschooling.

So this is my update we are doing great over here thriving and moving through life one day at a time. We are making positive changes in our homeschool that have made us all happier as a family.

Until the Next Time,

Mom and J

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Curriculum, Homeschool, Homeschool Health, Mom Life

SchoolhouseTeachers.com Review

Disclaimer: I received a FREE copy of this product through the HOMESCHOOL REVIEW CREW in exchange for my honest review. I was not required to write a positive review nor was I compensated in any other way.

It is second semester for us in our home school journey and coming off a long break I can honestly say my lesson plans are a mess and I feel totally out of practice. This mom is super excited and relieved to be reviewing the Ultimate PreK-12 Annual Membership from SchoolhouseTeachers.com.

The Ultimate PreK-12 Annual Membership from SchoolhouseTeachers.com is a comprehensive homeschooling database for grades PK-12th grade. The membership comes with printable, lesson plans, online classes and educational videos. Along with all the great homeschooling resources their are awesome household resources such as menu planning , parenting library and many more resources.

For the second semester I wanted to plan a unit for health and nutrition and I really didn’t want to have to purchase a new textbook and teachers manual just for this unit. With the Ultimate PreK-12 Annual Membership from SchoolhouseTeachers.com I was able to select my sons grade level look for through the subjects and instantly I found exactly what I needed for a full 9 week lesson plan completely laid out for me complete with helpful links for activities we can do. The best part is the lesson plan was laid out on a 2 day a week schedule which is perfect and I decided to slide this unit into our morning meeting time. I left out the best part it also included the 24 page textbook that I could print out and use as well with my son.

The Ultimate PreK-12 Annual Membership from SchoolhouseTeachers.com makes it just that easy for you all you do is search, click, print and go. What I was about to start stressing out about took me all of 10 mins to prep crisis over. As a member you also have exclusive access to 450+ videos that cover academics, clean kids entertainment, parenting , relationships, religion and much more.

SchoolhouseTeachers.com offers parents the flexibility to use the resources to customize them as they fit your family needs. You have access to all grade levels and resources in so there is no need to wonder about having to select one grade level and only use those materials for that level. There is also a Literacy Center that is a great resource for teaching literacy and guidance for growing readers.

I also like the Focus Learning Center it helps direct you to the lessons and resources within SchoolhouseTeachers.com for extra support in these areas :

  • Math, Science and Reading
  • Special Needs
  • Physical Education
  • High School and College
  • Hands on Learning
  • Charlotte Mason
  • Parenting and a few more.

The Ultimate PreK-12 Annual Membership from SchoolhouseTeachers.com is great investment for the homeschooling family, especially those with a large family and a small budget looking to cut cost on purchasing so many curriculum. The membership comes with great academic and non academic resources and makes life easier for parents homeschooling. The website is also mobile friendly I had no problems viewing and printing from the website using my iPhone. The annual membership cost at the time of this review is $99 for the year or $12 a month this sell ends 1/31/20. I highly recommend you check this resource out if you are looking for a minimal cost and approach to homeschooling that is all inclusive.

Be sure to check out the rest of the Crew reviews on the Ultimate PreK-12 Annual Membership from SchoolhouseTeachers.com by clicking the banner.

Until Next Time,

Mom

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Education, Homeschool, Mom Life, Parenting

Our Day and a Life in Homeschooling!

I am seriously a type A person, I crave organization and planning. There is a huge issue with being a Type A person and homeschooling you have to be able to create balance for yourself and a relaxed learning environment for your student.

November Schedule

My day typically day starts at 5/5:30 am…with prayers and trying to collect my thoughts before the day jump starts. My son is up every morning by 6:30 am, I know yikes!! We spend some time talking and cuddling and then he gets up and gets dressed and makes his bed and plays. Breakfast is at 7/7:30 am while he eats and watches Arthur I clean the kitchen and check in with the hubby and take out dinner and prep his snacks for the day for him.

We keep it pretty simple for breakfast…I always make enough pancakes on Sunday for 3 days. After breakfast he brushes his teeth and does his chores and then starts his independent board work. I write his board work on the board after he goes to bed at night so it’s ready in the morning. While he does board work I check emails and do some work at the computer, chores and then I join him at the table.

Home School Time

This is how our day runs for home school we typically start at 9am!

We kick the day off with Math! Why you may ask? Math is the area of study we are really concentrating on this year. I needed this subject to be first because his mind is ready and sharp! Math is divided into 3 areas:

  • Hands On Activity
  • Review and Teach
  • Lessons
  • Math Fact Fluency

After math we have brain breaks!! Brain breaks can be listening to music dancing and acting silly or letting him hang out with GoNoodle Plus!!

Once we are done with brain breaks we move on to handwriting! Handwriting I rotate what he is working on throughout the week:

  • M-F Learning Without Tears
  • 1 day a week Journal
  • 2 days a week Spectrum Handwriting
  • Chalkboard review (this targets any letter that needs some support)
  • 1 day a week copy work

Reading and Language Arts are the areas that he breezes through super fast these days so I tend to leave this to the end of our morning! At some point between these subjects he grabs a snack! I like to break these areas down also:

Reading

  • Phonics cards (5 mins)
  • Sight Words (5 mins)
  • Spelling box (10-15 mins)
  • Daily lesson (30-40 mins some time less)

Language Arts

    Grammar work (10 mins)
    • Hands on activity (10- 30 mins)

Time for Lunch

During lunch we eat together and that’s when I do our read aloud. Sometimes I let him watch a show on PBS Kids or Netflix. During lunch we typically talk about what he wants to do in the afternoon. We clean up lunch and then we head outside for some fresh air or we go out and run errands.

Afternoon

Normally the afternoon is when we do our electives we rotate them, but as of lately he has been requesting to do them all especially science. He also has taken a liking to social studies. Geography and History are defiantly rotated throughout the week. He grabs a snack while doing these electives. Our electives take about 45 mins – 1hour to run through! By 2:30/3 pm we are done for the day!

The afternoons are also reserved for special interest activities and extra curricular activities and knowledge box, but typically he just does whatever he wants. He is a HUGE Osmo fan and loves to code!

His Time

The one thing I make sure I do every day is make sure I set aside at least 30-60 mins where him and I just play. Some days he doesn’t want to play together but he just wants me in the room with him just so we can talk and he can show me what he is working on or whatever he wants. I think this is an important aspect for our day because he gets to have me in his space on his own terms! Don’t get me wrong we play all day while doing school and talk but this time of the day is special for him because he is in charge.

Late Afternoon

Daddy is usually home and they hang out for a little or he plays and helps me with dinner. Once again Arthur is watched or Odd Squad these are his two favorite shows. He can’t watch them until he has done his 20 mins of required reading.

Early Evening

We always eat dinner as a family and talk about our day and do our High’s and Low’s. My son usually finishes up dinner before we do and he clears his plate and and puts his pajamas on unless it’s bath night. He heads back downstairs and helps me clean the kitchen while we groove out to 90’s R& B on Alexa Amazon Music!

Bedtime

Our bedtime routine has been pretty much the same since he was a baby! My son is usually in bed no later than 8pm and sleep by 8:15 pm. There are some rare occasion when Daddy is working late but on those days he Face-time us so he is still apart of this special time.

The one thing I have learned is to follow his lead. No day is perfect, I just pause and rewind, reevaluate and let go. If he is showing an interest in something I just let that interest direct our day. Are there areas we could improve in? Probably so, but the wonderful thing about choosing this path to be a homeschooler is we are not on a clock. I want to enjoy our time together and for him to continue to develop a healthy love for learning.

So I am keeping my type A personality in line and balancing what he needs as well. If that means I do laundry at night after he goes down that’s fine. If only 50% of the things in my planner gets done I have made my peace with it. My planner is only a blueprint and not the final design of our week.

There is no such thing as a perfect homeschool, I try to let my followers and friends know that we are far from perfect in this house. There are days the house could use a little more TLC and I could make that uploaded picture on my Instagram look blemish free, staged and photoshopped, but why? That’s not real it’s fake and it applies way too much pressure on new families who want to take on this journey.  I have decided to keep  it real I am doing the best I can to make it through this crazy life and doing what matters.

So, if you happen to catch us on Instgram or swing by our way on Facebook, feel free to reach out to me because I am never too busy to lend a helping hand or just need a coffee chat with a fellow mama. Enjoy your children and let go of perfect and make everyday count!

Until Next Time,

Little Learner and Mom